If You Want His Attention - Look Him in the Eye!

By: Sarah Love

We have all seen the flirty woman blow a kiss at a man to spark his attraction. However - there is a very overlooked secret to body language that sparks attraction and sends out the right kind of message in a much more subtle, but powerful way. The method? Simply - eye contact.

In order to send out the right kind of communication with eye contact, it is essential to hold the person's gaze for longer than they are looking at you. In other words - it's not a stare down, but you want to be the last to look away. It's a very subtle thing, but also very potent.

Try it. The next man who you see that you find attractive, hold his gaze when he looks at you. Imagine yourself blowing a kiss with your eyes. Let him drop the eye contact first. This can be REALLY uncomfortable, even counterintuitive, for some women. But if you want to use your eyes to spark attraction, you need to do it, and do it well.

Since most women seem incapable of doing that - it is something he is going to notice about you right away. For a man - different is good when it comes to attraction. Your gaze will intrigue him, and his curiosity is exactly what you want.

You need to practice though. So next time you are at Wal Mart, practice! Start looking every single man you see right in the eye, until he looks away. Do it until it becomes second nature to you and you are actually comfortable with it.

Keep in mind, though, you are not trying to be overbearing or creepy with this. You are not trying to make him LESS than you or submit to you. You are trying to get his ATTENTION. So when you finally strike up a conversation with him, DO look away naturally every once in a while.

When you are in the middle of a conversation with him, too, its time to dial up the attraction even more. You can do this but letting something else catch your attention for a little while. When you let your attention wander from him, he will work to get it back. It's also a great opportunity for him to look at you and watch you surreptitiously, which men love to do!

On your first date with him, too, you can do even more to keep him guessing just a little bit. Act a little "friendlier" than usual - not like flirty friendly - but like a buddy. This will make him a little unsure of his effect on you, and will keep him trying harder to grab your interest.

These are simple things that women can do to get - and keep - the attraction of a man you are interested in. Keep him guessing a little, keep him working at it, and you will keep him attracted - to YOU!

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